Friday, August 20, 2010

What do i do in this situation?

When it comes to guys it seems like im always the one guys secretly want but never openly (would never show me off as a gf) In school i knew nothing but blatant rejection and teasing from guys calling me ugly and fat. I have never had a bf. Now i am in my early 30s and im finding a lot of married men flirt with me (again guys that could never openly be with me) not that they say ';i like you'; or anything but its more like the eye contact, staring, picking (in a good way this time).


The thing is i enjoy this attention i get, the bad side is i come to depend on it and almost feel its the ONLY attention i can get from a guy meaning i cant phantom a guy OPENLY/BLATANTLY saying he is interested in me. How do i change my thinkingWhat do i do in this situation?
You have to learn to move away from men like that and move into environments that have men that are available to be with you like that. You are putting yourself in that situation whether you realize it or not. Maybe it's just where you work, or hang out, but you need to find new avenues and environments where more ';single, available'; people are. And never look to the past to try to reason out your present. You should always look forward and try to be open to new experiences in order to make the future what you want it to be.What do i do in this situation?
You have to realize they are doing it out of insecurities. You also should try going to single mingles. There are a lot of places you can meet single ppl
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