Why am i always attracted to married men? All the good ones are married. How can I get one?

i have always had this problem of being attracted to married men, or boyfriends of my close friends. i have broken up many friendships over the years, and i still seem to have this problem today. i flirt with married men at work,at the gym, and online





how can i stop? i'm tired of having all these other women hate meWhy am i always attracted to married men? All the good ones are married. How can I get one?
You of course realize my wife* is going to kill me for replying to you. But you need help, and thats why I am here.





You desire what a married man represents. A stable family man who puts his wife and/or children first and foremost. From the outside, you see the bond and love that the marriage has created. You are still trying to find that in a man, and your probably still dating men that want to go party or buy the PS3.


Your time will come. Stop looking so hard. When you least expect it, he will appear.





Now you must excuse me before my wife* sees me here.Why am i always attracted to married men? All the good ones are married. How can I get one?
You obviously are not serious about being in a healthy relationship or are really not interested in having one at all. Otherwise, you would not go out with unavailable guys. If women are hatin on you, it's because that's what you want. Sounds like maybe part of you enjoys the attention of taken men. Maybe it makes you feel special somehow that a taken guy is ignoring his woman (for a short period of time) to hang out with you. Start respecting yourself more and stop wasting time on married/taken guys. All it is is a short ego boost for you, and then it fizzles out as fast as it starts. Sounds like you are self-sabotaging! Value yourself first, then others can love you too (others who are NOT taken).
Hi friend,


There's nothing really wrong with you. You just seem to draw the ones that aren't free and available anymore. But hey, who's to blame if you're attractive. You can't do anything to stop them from admiring you. So enjoy the attention, but don't fell into the relationship. But the good news is you have that quality that attracts men. I should be really worried if there is nobody approaching you at all. The right guy will come. Just go on with your life, with your work and be yourself. He will come at the least expected place, the least expected time and believe me, he'll be a least expected someone.
The old addage all the good ones are taken or gay... Honestly its far from true. The problem is, is people covet. You want what you see is good in a relationship and cannot steer clear of the person involved already. Wanting what another person wants is all good and well. You need to get it out of your head that if that ';female'; was you then you would have that type of relationship.


Chances are, you won't.


People who are involving themselves in others' relationships play a dangerous game on many levels. What most do not understand, it is not the being in love, or lust, that you are after, but the IDEA of it. SO you tend to get involved with Ideal relationships by nudging in there with your physical body and then realize...ooops I messed up.





What you are looking for is a solid relationship that emulates the ones you are getting involved in the middle of. What you first need to do is step away from your circle, because obviously too many married people = no pond to fish from.





Remember that a relationship is nothing more than the ability to put up with your mates crap.


Obviously your not in a real relationship because you have not established with anyone what that level of crap you will take is, or they have pushed beyond it too man times.
Sometimes unconsciously you want what you can't have. All of these men are unavailable and maybe to you that's semi safe. I would not care if these women hate you....if you find out that a guy is married...that's when you say ';oh waiter, check please';. There are good single guys out there maybe you need to change up on what you are looking for. It kinda like having a friend that always loves the ';bad boy';. Sometimes you have to switch up on the places you go in order to find what you are looking for. I told my friend to look into golfing....she wants a sugar daddy with some class.....Sometimes ya got to think outside the box. Do you think you will find a player at the library? just sayin
heh married men are the best really no commitment, and you know they have already made the decision to ';commit';. not sure what age group of ';men'; you are checkin out but if i were you id stop hunting. if you think about it when you hunt your prey runs from you but when you just brows about unassuming you run into the best thing you never thought of asking for. good luck!
first ask yourself if you would want some girl to do this to you with your husband/boyfriend...it isn't right and you might think you are only hurting friendships but you could also be ruining families....i don't think you are actually attracted to the men i think you like the thrill of flirting with married men
Perhaps you like men who are unavailable as you may have intimacy issues. It is a safety net. If you are unsure of which men are the ';good ones'; you maybe looking to others for your idea on what makes a man appealing.


Like many things, you need time %26amp; patience w/ yourself. Good luck out there! :0)
stop flirting.


And be patient. Men aren't sex tools. We have feelings too. Always remember that. If you act to fast you'll get a dog. Wait for the leader of the pack, and you'll get someone who loves you and cares for you and gives you flowers at work, and lays rose pedals on the bed for you and sets up baths for you to relax in.
Ok, your question is contradictory. You said why are you attracted and how to stop, but you also said how can you get one. How about you make up your mind and realize that dating someone who is supposed to be taken is wrong.
Just plain stop. Be strong, stop flirting with people you know are taken. If you aren't sure, then don't flirt until you are. There will be available men. You just have to look. The right guy will come along if you are patient.
stop being a ho and find somebody thats not taken.


plain and simple.


if a guy is taken hes off limits!!


how dare you do things like that.


you could be flirting with my dad for all i know!


gain some self respect and f*ck off!
you can have my husband any time! lol be true to your own self! your worth it!
Don't worry lori xx, they'll all be back in the market place soon then you can take your pick - does this mean then that I'll have to get married first before you will hit on me ?
You're a bad person if you make others break up, can't you find your own men, your sick, stop it before it happens to you too...or before someone makes you pay...
Well I think you have to look in somewhere else to find a nice single guy. There are thousands of them out there for sure!!!
resolve your daddy issues
So your dad was unavailable eh? Do have an oral fixation? Call me. ;)
hey do what you like, its just life live it. its not your fault these women can keep there men happy and you can
Yeah id try and stop before you have all your friends hating you





why not try online dating or speed dating or looking at mens fingers for a ring next time your looking a man up and down ;)





all the best lew
you like the the chase and like to be a homewrecker?