Those women also try to use the excuse that jerks are ';masculine'; and ';strong'; and ';confident';, when in fact jerks and ';bad boys'; are weak and insecure, and act in boorish ways to overcompensate.
Why are women in such denial about this?Why do women complain about how men are jerks, when it's jerks that women want?
Personally don't know any of these creatures you speak of. But I have a question - are you one of those jerks?Why do women complain about how men are jerks, when it's jerks that women want?
I asked the same thing. And it's because they're are bitches, What does ***** mean? It means to complain. They complain, complain and the next thing. Women who are bitchn' about men being a jerk, are jerks themselves.
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It has to do with only one thing. Attraction is not a choice.
They do not go out, see a guy, and decide...you know I think I am going to be attracted to him.
What attracted women is not the jerk part but the confident...strong...and funny man. It is impossible for a woman to tell if you are truly weak and insecure if the way you present yourself is the exact opposite.
If when you meet a girl you act a bit shy....not confident...and almost afraid to talk to her you can bet she will not find you attractive. If you then meet another girl and you are confident...tease her like she was your kid sister and make her laugh you stand out. Everyone likes to have fun and woman are no exception.
And it has to do with how available you seem to be. If a guy seems to have so many things going on in his life that he may be able to fit her in but only if she meets his standards you can better believe she will find you attractive because now you are a challenge.
It is not logical. Never is.
Think about this. As you walk though a mall....you see a lot of woman.....some you hardly even notice. But some.....no matter that they are not centerfolds or models get your attention. Something about the way they look...carry themselves....maybe a certain confidence that they know what there about....it's all different for each of us. If you do that you have some idea why it works as it does.
Some time back I was put on an e-mail list....have no idea why....but it is one of the most fascinating I have ever seen.
Go to the link below and sign up for it. He puts out an e-mail once a week or more. Most are filled with success stories of guys who practiced his teaching. Try it...it is free...you will begin to have your answer.
It's NOT jerks that women want.
My husband said something very insightful once. That every woman needs to have one bad man to teach her the value of a good one.
I think he's right. I had a bad guy only to realize it's a massive mistake. Now I have a good one. The same can be said about everyone woman I know.
In the end, it's usually the good guys that win.
Famke Janssen/Jean Grey said in X-Men 2 ';Girls flirt with the dangerous guy, they don't bring him home... they marry the good guy.'; and ';the good guy sticks around.';
And it's the truth.
Sometimes we get what we think we want, and turns out in the end we didn't want it at all. I like a man who can stand up for himself but is not a jerk all the time. I like him to be sweet when I need him to be sweet and be a jerk when it calls for it.
When it comes to women, ';one can almost, always, never tell.';
cos they are the greatest jerks themselves
i'm not into the bad boy type, i like the nerds, geeks, and brainiacs. not the ones that play video games all day either. if someone cant stimulate my mind, they wont be stimulating anything else either. i require a lot of daily mental stimulation. the jerks are no fun, theres no long term interest from them, they get a new toy, play with it for a while and move on. even if they stick around for a while their mind moves on to other things and its no fun anymore. give me the intelligent ones anyday!
The females that like the jerks are the ones that don't have confidence. Not everyone is like that. There is always hope that a good guy will come around.
Probably has something to do with the fact that women are not like men in one very important way -- men are direct and simply ask for what they want. Women play games, give subtle ';hints,'; and manipulate to get what they want. Go ahead ladies, flame away, but we all know it's true.
You're right -- it's those very character traits that cause women to label men as ';jerks'; that attract them. Can't tell you how many times I've heard women crying about how there are no nice guys around, but once they find a nice guy who treats them well the old tired line ';Let's just be friends'; comes out. See, women have no respect for nice guys. If a guy is ';nice'; it means he's a wimp, pansy, eunuch, gurly-mon, take your pick. They'll use and abuse guys like that but they'll never date them and they'll CERTAINLY never go to bed with them.
Here's the most ironic thing: A recent women's survey asked women what they want in a relationship. The overwhelming majority responded ';chemistry.'; You know, when you feel the heat and the sparks are flying...I wonder how many of these women have actually taken a chemistry class -- when you put two chemicals together and the combination produces heat and sparks, you know what almost always happens next? KA-BOOM!!! An explosion that destroys anything and everything in the vicinity. And these females wonder why they keep getting their hearts broken?!?!!
Okay heres the deal, women dont like men who are TOO sensitive and TOO nice, it can get annoying really quick, especially when those men are more sensitive than us women! When women say they want ';bad boys'; they dont mean that the guy is a ';bad boy'; to them, they mean they want tough, confident men. A man who is going to stand up for his woman. Scenario: You and your boyfriend are at the mall, you're looking at one thing in the store, and your boyfriend is off in another part. A guy comes up to you and starts hitting on you, when you tell him you have a boyfriend, he starts calling you names, and telling you he'll get with you anyways (not like this would ever happen, but hey, it could) now would you rather have the boyfriend that walks up and says ';get the hell away from my girlfriend or you'll be in a world of hurt'; or would you rather have the boyfriend that didnt come up at all because he was too scared? No, only women who are stupid and have no self-confidence ';flirt'; with men who mistreat them. no girl wants a guy calling her stupid, *********, S*L*U*T, W*H*O*R*E. Theres a difference in ';bad boys'; and ';abusive boys';. Most women who are strong and confident in themselves are not in denial about this. Women who really dont have any respect for themselves, are the ones in denail.
yeah, women are a lot more jerks than men, but the more jerk they are, the nicer and sexier they become, right?
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